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Will too many toys spoil a child?
Q: My son just had his first birthday. His sister is 4. We love to give them toys that help their development in some way, but worry that too many toys or choices will just confuse them, or "spoil" them. How do we find the right balance?
A: Lynn, you put me on the spot because, at Fisher-Price, we don’t think there is such a thing as too many toys! Kidding aside, this is a question many parents have. Their house is full of toys, and just like you, they worry if there are too many. In addition, too many choices can be overwhelming to some children.

Well, one of the things you could try is rotating toys: observe which toys aren’t being used on a regular basis and put them away for awhile; when you bring them out again, put others away. Do this every so often and you’ll probably notice your children looking forward to the change. That’s one way to control toy clutter and provide the right balance of toys.

Also, try helping and encouraging your children to put their toys away after playtime, with a special place for everything. Doing this will not only help them to keep toys orderly, but the process itself will teach them the beneficial skill of how to categorize things. When toys are put away so all the pieces that go together are stored together, I have found children are more respectful of their toys and they actually play better! When you can’t find a place, or places, for everything in an organized way, that is a sign there are probably too many toys out, so put some away for another day.

Since your children are several years apart in age, finding the right balance of toys may, at times, be a challenge, because what is interesting to one child at the mument may not be of interest to the other. However, there are many toys that have long-lasting play value and will engage the interest of both of your children. By the way, since your daughter is 4, some of the toys that are appropriate for her will not be appropriate for your 1-year-old son. Therefore, your daughter should be encouraged to help keep toys with small parts out of reach of her younger brother.
Kathleen Alfano Ph.D. Director of Child Research at Fisher-Price®