Q:
My 19-month-old grandson screams when we put a life jacket on him to go on our boat. I know it's foreign to him, but I want to make sure he's safe. What can we do to get him to wear it? I think it's important for him to learn very young about safety on a boat or around the ocean. Can you help?
A:
Yes, it's important for your grandson to learn about safety on a boat. But does he have to learn it at 19 months?
I suggest you stop taking him on the boat until he's a little older and will wear the life jacket. For now, help him associate the life jacket with fun activities. For example, he might feel better about wearing it if you put it on him in so he can play in a swimming pool.
Take your time with the situation. Many parents experience a similar reluctance from young kids upset about sitting in car seats. You don't have a problem. Your grandson just needs time to mature.
Kenneth N. Condrell Ph.D Child Psychologist
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