A: Two parents with full-time jobs and a newborn to care for: what a challenge. And your baby's schedule is reversed because of your work schedule. I'm not surprised you're having problems. Here are some thoughts to consider.

If you want to help your baby sleep more at night, perhaps your husband could feed him formula. Or you could also ask a relative, friend, babysitter or nanny to come in for a while each day to allow you to get the sleep you need.

The most dramatic change would be if one of you stayed home full-time while the parent who earns the most continues works full-time, or if one of you reduced your hours to part-time.

When a husband and a wife become a mother and a father they go through a transition period that often puts a strain on their marriage. Perhaps you and your husband should get some counseling on how to handle your work schedules, and your baby, before your marriage and your family suffers anymore.

Right now you're angry with your husband, so your marriage is suffering. Your baby may be frustrated going from one parent who is patient to another who seems irritated and impatient. Since you work at a children's hospital you should be able to find a child psychologist and family counselor to meet with you and your husband a few times. Good luck.