Taking pictures is a popular pastime and a wonderful way to document the world around us. But did you know that your camera can also serve as a powerful parenting tool?

There are several ways that photography can benefit a child. For example, you can bolster a child’s self-esteem by letting him serve as the “official” photographer of your next family event. When you designate your child the family photographer, you not only ensure that he receives lots of positive attention from everyone, but you end up with very special photos taken from a special point of view. Most importantly, you’ve done a lot to make that child feel special within the family.

If you’re concerned about entrusting your expensive camera to a youngster during your next get-together, purchase a disposable one or an inexpensive model. And if you have more than one child, make sure each one gets a turn as family photographer.

Beyond helping a child gain confidence, photos can also help kids cope with the death of a loved one. Your child can create an album of photos of the deceased relative that show the life of the person they loved so much. You and your child can choose the pictures together, filling the new album with wonderful memories. Help your child pick out a title for the album – “Grandpa and Me,” for example. His special album will help him relive the wonderful memories again and again, making them a great source of comfort as he longs for the person who has passed on. Remember, children grieve over many months, just as adults do. Having an album that he can look at will help him get through those sad times.

Furthermore, pictures can provide a wonderful distraction from stress, whether that stress comes from an unexpected event or just the hectic pace of everyday life. When children look at photos of happy times, particularly when you’re sitting there with them, they’re reminded of everything that’s right in their life. When they see themselves smiling in a picture, it’s proof that they’re loved. They gain a better understanding of life’s balance—the good and the bad. Perhaps they don’t feel wonderful at the moment, but they will soon.

And when things start to look up for them, don’t forget to reach for your camera, parents. Your child is ready to say, “Cheese!”