Q:
My husband and I work full-time so both sets of grandparents take care of our 2½-year-old son.
It's great that he's with family, but there are no children for him to play with. My husband wants to enroll him in daycare two days a week. I worry about him making the transition. Would it be better to wait a year?
A:
I understand your concern Laura, but I think you will feel better if you reframe the situation. Instead of thinking you son will be stressed, think about the fun he's going to have being with other children.
As he's almost 3, this is a good time to introduce him to other children. While it's great to have your child around his family, he does need to be with children. When I was a youngster, I was surrounded by a large extended family but had little exposure to other children. I became very good at getting along with adults; when kindergarten came along, I was lost and scared.
If you're still uneasy, start your child with half-days at the daycare.
Good luck!
Kenneth N. Condrell Ph.D Child Psychologist
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